25.3.12

Guest post - Skin Deep: Beauty from the Inside Out


By: Jackie Clark

What woman doesn't like to feel good about herself? Feeling
beautiful empowers women to be strong, confident, and
happy individuals. Once a woman receives a cancer
diagnosis or prognosis, positive self-esteem becomes a
difficult task to manage, especially for young women. Every
day, there are a number of women out there who learn that
they have cancer. It is important for these women to be
educated in techniques that support achieving and
maintaining self-confidence despite their medical condition.
All women have the right to feel beautiful about themselves
regardless of who they are and what they are going through.
Beauty and fashion are both healthy outlets for women to
express themselves and gain confidence, helping them to
become powerful and strong.

Some say that makeup has healing powers. Even if you
have mesothelioma cancer paired with treatment, cosmetics
can also offer additional helpful benefits. If you stay in your
pajamas sans makeup until the afternoon, you usually feel a
little less sure of yourself; after a magical swipe of mascara,
you are suddenly ready to conquer the world. It’s funny how
the smallest things can make us feel better about ourselves,
but makeup definitely does. Another added benefit from
wearing cosmetics is the everyday skin protection is offers
from the sun’s harmful rays. Those undergoing treatment for
cancer may experience skin that is sensitive in the sun and it
is imperative that SPF is always applied prior to sun
exposure. Now, it is no secret that makeup helps women
feel better about themselves, but with so many different
types of cosmetics out there, how do you know which ones
are the best?

Organic cosmetics offer women suffering from cancer a
natural product that is made using the purest of ingredients.
Organic makeup is becoming more widely available and
produced. With so many options to choose from, it is helpful
to know a little about the products and the benefits that are
associated with the use of organic makeup before investing.
Organic makeup is becoming increasingly more popular.
Some believe that the cost of organic cosmetics is greater
than that of standard drug store makeup; however there are
organic cosmetics that are less expensive and easily found,
like Physician’s formula. Less than 15% of the 10,500
chemicals in most makeup have been tested for safety,
making organic cosmetics seem like a much safer option.

Mineral makeup is another cosmetic choice for women
suffering from cancer. Also made with pure ingredients,
mineral makeup offers the added benefit of creating
personalized shades and products. While not the cheapest
cosmetic option out there, mineral makeup does last for
quite some time and since the user makes the product, you
can determine how much you create at a time. Cancer
patients may notice changes in their skin due to their
treatment therapies; using a pure and gentle product is
essential in avoiding any skin irritations or reactions. If a skin
reaction occurs, it is important to notify a cosmetic
professional or doctor.

Women are all made differently, although they all have one
thing in common, the fact that they are beautiful regardless
of what life throws their way. Using cosmetics and specialty
beauty products will help enhance a woman’s appearance,
for women suffering from cancer, the benefits are endless.
From helping build self-confidence to skin protection from
the sun, beauty products are useful tools in helping a
woman be happy with whom she is.

11.3.12

I have missed you guys so much!!!! A little update on me if you are interested.

I am a little too mushy to you guys.hahaha How have you all been doing? This is my first real post in 2012.. and it is March now!!! oh how time flies...
As I said in my previous post I have been busy.. That's the main reason I disappear.However, if you added me on FB you will know I am a frequent there. Though not as much as I want to, but sufficient enough for you to know what is going through my mind.

The start of 2012 was not a good one. Even the ending of 2011 is far from good but you have to make do with whatever you have isn't it? I knoooow that there are more sad, horrible things happening to other people out there but when the problems come to you they seem to be bigger. Way bigger that what you expect them to be. The emotional burden that you carry.. only God knows how heavy.... I am so lucky in some way to have very good friends around. Who spend their precious time listening to me rambling about my stuff not once but OVER and OVER again. not that I am over my problems now.. They are still there.. part of it anyway but they are not as big as they used to be.. I realized this after I found a better purpose in life. A goal.. A vision of what I want to be 5 years from now. I sometimes get swayed in my thoughts where I often forget my goal but God never fails to remind me. A kick in the butt usually do the trick..

Just remember all the problems you have will appear smaller if you have purpose in life. If something is trying to stop you, step back and look at the bigger picture. Never zoom in to your problem unnecessarily, talk to a good friend, pour your heart out..You may not feel like doing anything other than sulking on your bed all day long. I say sulked! sulked a week max then get on with life. No matter what your problem is NEVER let your life stop there.The earth is still spinning even when you sleep.

I got disappointed with so many people earlier this year. Having disappointment towards someone who really matters to you (be it bf, friends, family etc..etc) is not a good feeling to have. To me the feeling kills.Unfortunately, you cannot change someone or you can't make someone stay they way they are back when you first know them.. People move on, if they step forward and never look back (harsh truth), you may not want them in your life either. No matter how a person's attitude can change, their values will remain the same.If you meant something to them, you will always be precious.

Earlier this year I have so much negative energy in me that it drags me down so much, then I came across this list. This is not an extraordinary list. You may know it, heard of it, even practice it before. But when problem hit you everything you seem to know or advise to people is flushed down the toilet.


If you don't feel like clicking the link here are the Top 6 that I personally agree to very much..

  1. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either.  You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
  2. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.  If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you.  You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.  Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth.  And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
  3. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on.  No, it won’t be easy.  There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them.  We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems.  That’s not how we’re made.  In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall.  Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time.  This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
  4. Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
  5. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.  Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
  6. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.

I hope the list somehow help. If any of you, facing problems and you have no one to talk to or don't feel like disclosing your problems to anyone you know you can always email(yourwarehouse[at]gmail[dot]com) me or message me on FB (Nicole's Mirror). If you are wondering as to why I didn't find time to post beauty products review, it is mainly because I am having acne problem now. I don't want to make things worse by applying make up or changing skincare... even though they say it is hormones I am more skeptical and cautious as to what I apply on my face now..



xoxo
Blowing a kiss